Why a girl cant confess she was raped?

​Okay so there have been many talks about feminism and people all over the world are discussing this.  There are new blogs everyday saying what feminism is and telling what girls undergo certain situations throughout her life and the world who just keeps commenting on one such girl’s life so easily how needs to understand and respect that. Everyday a new photo is being photo bombed and posted on facebook and instagram and thousands of tweets and retweets  everyday . BUT what all this for? Some people just read out blogs comment on them and forget it the very next second and some just like the photos as randomly they do on every photo.Thats it? And then they call themselves feminist the supporters who stand up for females all time whenever they need. But a society full of such virtual feminists still puts on so much of do’s and dont’s  and don’t accept a girl completely just the way she is. A major one of the problem in the world is RAPE and MOLESTATION . okay there have been a lots of post talking about the criminals and lets not talk about that. But what questions me all time is why a girl isn’t being accepted the way she is. I mean in this 21st century world full of feminists people still call the girl which is actually the victim terms her as IMPURE .Really? Those asshole who ripped the girl apart, who snatched away the most important thing from a girl who not only made her lost her virginity but also made her lost the confidence in herself to face the world,who  aren’t shamed that much as much as a girl is shamed just because she is no more a virgin. World call her impure and touched by other mens  and she starts believing them, she starts agreeing to the shit like it would be her fault at some place somewhere and looses the self confidence in herself . Society blames her for wearing short clothes and hanging out with guyz which according to the world is a sign indicating she is a slut and you can just rip her and her virginity however you want , her parents ask her to stay quiet and accept whatever she has gone through by understanding it was written in her destiny just because no boy would marry her once he would get to know she isn’t a virgin against her choice.She would have to face the sarcastic tones of her family and friends as she is now a burden on them and how they cant face the world and live between society reputedly just because a guy have touched her which was definitely not her choice . And what leads this? This leads to thousands of girls who just don’t face the reality because of this and remain silent . There would be many such girls who would have became a  victim of such deadly crime but have suffered silently by crying her chest out in a dark room just in the fear that instead of getting support and stand she would have to face a thousand million more problems . She keeps quiet thinking what will her  family and  friends think of her . What would society question her ? How would people judge her ? How badly she would get inappropriate bullshit tags. And the main question is this is what she all deserves from people around her? What bad it makes to her and her character if she is raped? People are modern enough to discuss sex but not modern enough to go against rape and support the victim.

16th December 2012 was a terrible day for india to digest because an indian daughter was raped beaten and murdered by six fucking criminals which caused a revolution all over the india. Infact not only india it spread worldwide across Singapore ,Canada and many more countries  and this case was named as NIRBHAYA ATTACK as indian government has a rule not to disclose the name of the victim without her families permission and when asked this to the victims parents about this they very proudly announced victim’s name as JYOTI SINGH and her father even said “ we want the world to know her real name. My daughter didn’t do anything wrong she died while protecting herself and I am proud of her “ and this is what every victim who is a daughter expects from her parents atleast if not from society .

 I believe she is a warrior who rises up again fighting her worst demon which comes to her every night when she is alone. She is a brave soul who chooses to live after such heartbreaking incident with herself .She is fierceless who smiles everyday even after she was ripped completely appart . She is amazingly beautifull because she chooses love over hatred . And she deserves much more then what world actually gives her she deserves a liitle love more so that she don’t hate herself for whatever happened . she deserves an extra care so that she believes she would be safe nowonwards around her family and friends , she deserves  some faith in herself so that she can gain her confidence In herself back to face the world. And moreover she needs to be believed so that she could tell the world about the offense she went through and can punish the criminals shamelessly so that there would no more suicide attempts , no more an extrovert girl turning into an introvert completely ,no more suffering silently through the worst pain when she is completely broken and then no more asshole criminals can roam freely and she needs to get believed that world can be a better place for her to live .

Author: Afewlittlethings

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